Welcome to the Resting Tree blog, where we delve into the intricacies of mental health, healing, and personal growth. As a private practice specializing in trauma-informed, compassion-focused, and humanistic approaches, we are dedicated to providing insightful and empowering content to support your journey towards holistic well-being.

Our blog is a safe space for exploring the complexities of the human experience, offering valuable resources, and fostering a sense of community. Join us as we navigate the path to healing and self-discovery, one blog post at a time.

How to Deal with Guilt When You Need to Slow Down

How to Deal with Guilt When You Need to Slow Down

That familiar pang of guilt when we take a break or slow down is a significant life skill to manage. Today's society celebrates non-stop hustle, making people feel guilty about anything that doesn't boost productivity. This guilt becomes a heavy burden, pushing us harder while our bodies and minds scream for rest. Slowing down is not just acceptable, but vital. This blog will help you understand break-related guilt and the impact of constant motion. You'll find practical strategies to welcome rest without feeling guilty and build a healthier relationship with downtime.

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Overcoming Overstimulation: Strategies for Sensory Balance

Overcoming Overstimulation: Strategies for Sensory Balance

Feeling overwhelmed? You're not alone. Our world today is full of constant noise and distractions. These never-ending inputs can wear us down, leading to stress and emotional struggles. It's important to recognize when it's all too much and take steps to find balance. Let's talk about overstimulation - from our always-on devices to how it affects our minds. We'll look at simple ways to cut down on distractions and make space for calm. By doing this, we can build a healthier connection with our surroundings and find more peace in our daily lives.

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Summer Social Anxiety: Tips for a Relaxed Season

Summer Social Anxiety: Tips for a Relaxed Season

As summer unfolds, bringing longer days and more social gatherings, many of us face challenges amplified by the season's bright sunlight. Summer social anxiety magnifies self-consciousness, worry, and discomfort in social settings, exacerbating feelings of loneliness and FOMO (fear of missing out). Recognizing the impact of summer on our mental well-being is the first step toward navigating these months with grace. Hot weather can contribute to anxiety, so understanding why and how this happens is essential.

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Creating a Nurturing Mental Space at Home
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Creating a Nurturing Mental Space at Home

Creating a nurturing mental space at home is essential for fostering overall well-being and mental health. The aim of this article is to guide you in cultivating your own mental headspace at home, supporting mindfulness and well-being. We'll explore steps for simplifying and decluttering, introducing nature, using sensory elements for comfort, and personalizing your surroundings to create a mental safe space.

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New Year, True You: Setting Intentions for Authentic Living
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New Year, True You: Setting Intentions for Authentic Living

With the arrival of a new year, many of us feel a renewed sense of motivation and a desire to make positive changes in our lives. We set goals, make resolutions, and set out on a journey of self-improvement. But what if, instead of focusing on external achievements, we shifted our focus inward? What if, instead of striving for perfection, we focused on living authentically and nurturing our mental well-being?

In this article, we explore the idea of embracing a new year, true you. We delve into the power of setting intentions and how they can guide us towards leading a more authentic and fulfilling life. By setting intentions, we establish a clear direction for our thoughts and actions, allowing us to align our choices with our true values and desires.

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Coping with Loneliness During the Holiday Season: Finding Comfort and Connection

Coping with Loneliness During the Holiday Season: Finding Comfort and Connection

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. However, for many people, it can be a time of increased loneliness and isolation. It's important to remember that feeling lonely during the holidays is common and does not mean there is something wrong with you. In fact, it is an opportunity to practice self-care, seek connection, and find comfort in various ways.

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Why is it Hard to Love Myself? The Impact of Trauma on Self-Love

Why is it Hard to Love Myself? The Impact of Trauma on Self-Love

The impact of trauma on self-love is complex and multifaceted. It alters our self-worth, self-esteem, and self-confidence, often leading to fear and shame. However, understanding this relationship between trauma and self-love is the first step towards healing and reclaiming our self-worth.

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Navigating Trauma: Steps for Self-Care in the Face of Guilt

Navigating Trauma: Steps for Self-Care in the Face of Guilt

In this article, we delve into the challenges of navigating trauma and the additional burden of guilt. We understand that these weights can feel overwhelming, and we want to provide guidance on the importance of self-care as a lifeline for survival. While this article may not serve as definitive therapy, it serves as an initial step towards comprehending and restoring emotional balance, offering support and insights to help you navigate the path towards self-care and release feelings of guilt.

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Understanding Self-Compassion: What it is and What it is not

Understanding Self-Compassion: What it is and What it is not

Many people struggle to understand the true meaning of self-compassion. Some individuals mistakenly believe that self-compassion involves shirking responsibility or being self-centered and indulgent. However, this is far from the truth. Explore the true definition of self-compassion and its significance in managing trauma and suffering caused by past experiences.

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